defect

I've never been a hopeless romantic
Not even a romantic I must admit
I think I have a defect

"Love doesn’t think twice..it’s called on once and answers from a distance "

Does it really?? I for one do not believe in love at first sight..attraction however most definitely but I am a self proclaimed hyper cynic when it comes to love..i believe this feeling has to be cultivated and it has to grow on you for some period of time..it is not some instantaneous feeling u can feel towards someone especially at 1^st sight (I'm entitled to my own opinion..those with contradicting ones..plz express urself freely but on ur own blog) what can u possibly say u ‘love’ about the person?? Their looks?? What else can u possibly know at 1^st sight??

How do u know when ur ready to get into a relationship?? How do u maintain a relationship?? How do u know he/she is THE one??

oh gawd i'm like the last person that should be asked these questions..i am very fickle-minded and i tend to change my view on things in life too frequently for comfort and i am self-proclaimly so quite bias based on my own experinces..in the end u'll end up paying for my mistakes soooooooo..if ur asking for advice about this plz go knock on someone else's door..i'm not chasing u away it's juz i don't think i'm qualified but if u need some cheering up..an ear to listen..a good laugh and a hell of a good time..my door is alwaz open..alwaz!

but i do believe that everybody deserves a chance..if it puts a smile in ur heart..if it makes u radiate a glow no one seems to be able to put out with all their doubts and warnings..well how wrong can it possibly be?? but i tend to let my emotions lead my brain about on a leash soo..take ur time..think it through a lil bit more..but make sure whatever u decide ur doing it for u and no one else..ppl will talk rumours will spread..but if ur sure it shouldn't matter :)